When you look back on life, what do you want to remember?
Do you want your life to be a flood of memories, experiences and people?
Is it a timeline of accomplishments/children/or jobs?
What about a timeline of all the programs you have been in?
Thinking back and remembering months at this facility, or when you were in that other program.
Is that what you want your life to be? Just a strung together list of the places you went for treatment?
I started IOP at Hershey. It was great for dinner accountability, but I am also thankful that I think something clicked.
Sitting in a room with various people, with different backgrounds, different ages, we shared one common thing, that had us all here for one reason. We, at one point or another, were probably dragged into treatment by the ball and chain that was around our neck, being led into the unfamiliar place by the havoc ED had on our lives.
We went around the room and I listened as people shared their goals.
“Finish school.” “Get a job.” “Move.”
Then it came to me. I wasn’t sure what to say. Something in me clicked. It had occurred to me before, but never like this. I had finished school, I had just started an awesome career as biochemist, and moved about ten hours away. I felt like this might just be repeat. I needed something bigger, that is not to say these people’s goals were simple, and unimportant, not at all! I had accomplished their goals (which at one time were mine), but now what? I had moved ten hours to what? Go back into program?
I cannot have a successful life, or a life at all, while I am immersed in my eating disorder.
It is very disheartening though that there are many people in my life who don’t think I can do this on my own. I have flushed the Hydroxycut, cut down on purging immensely, and am really trying. To hear others say I need to go back to Hershey is discouraging. The hospital food itself is enough to send me into panic mode, when I could be eating stuff I actually enjoy.
That’s about it for now. I have a latte waiting for me.